Tantric Sex Beginners Guide To Great Sex

 Tantric Sex Beginners Guide to Great Sex

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Tantric Sex beginners guide. Well, if you haven’t heard of this before and want to try it then you are in for an awakening, literally.

Tantric sex is all about sexual awakening. A Lot. Of. Hard. Awakening.

The goal is to achieve maximum stimulation for you and your partner before sex, to greatly increase your sensuality and have the best sex ever.

The origins are steeped in mystery and tradition and go way back as long as the Kama Sutra. There are ancient Indian scriptures for tantric sex and there are levels you can take it up to, but for most people and certainly beginners just think of tantric sex as a journey you and your love squeeze can make together to learn the ultimate stimulation techniques for pre-sex for you as a couple…or threesome. The old books on tantric sex never limited the number of participants in the show. If you know what I mean…

Tantric sex comes down to exciting your partner sexually and creating a mind-blowing experience and probably longest foreplay you’ve ever had. You can definitely get creative and experiment and learn at the same time respect a great deal about each other. If you’ve been in a long relationship or married with kids then you can already see how your sex life may be in need of some sort of revitalization.

If you’ve just entered into a new relationship then you may possibility want to tone it down a little and not yet rush into the sexual spiritual awakening thing just yet? Perhaps you’re the love guru and your new squeeze may be totally up for it from day one, you lucky thing!

Either way, tantric sex asks for a bit of effort towards preparing for it. And certainly requires some extra quality time try it and appreciate all the magic tantric sex can bring.

 

Tantric Sex beginners guide – Time and Space and Continue ‘em.

When you’re ready to try tantric sex you must first embrace the spirit of what you are about to do. As you may have gathered, tantric sex is about creating the ultimate pre-sex situation possible and heightens all your sexual energies in order to take your sex lives to a higher level both sexually and spiritually. You need to create a perfect environment for you and your partner so you are allowed to appreciate each other as human beings as well as sexual partners.

It’s all about respecting each other through respecting the act of sex and the art of lovemaking. It may seem a bit too far-fetched to the untrained palate and this is something you’re not going to appreciate fully straight after the office Christmas party. In fact tantric sex is all about being fully focused and into each other. The whole thing relies on how you can stimulate your partner and bring them to a heightened state of sexual arousal and receive them same in return.

You may be wondering if all this preparation is worth it, but if you can spare the time what better than for tantalizing sex with your partner and probably meaning a lot more of it. You may start to want more and looking forward to your next session more and more. You should start to feel a sexual chemistry even during the day doing mundane things. This should be nurtured and used to add spice to tantric time.

Are you ready? Okay, it’s time to get on with it.

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Tantric Sex beginners guide – The Devil is in the Detail

Setting up the space

The first golden rule is to allow enough time for tantric sex and create a perfect atmosphere for what’s coming. For those with young kids this may be your first, but only, problem. Peace and quiet is paramount and you won’t want junior walking in while mummy and daddy and sitting on the floor stark, blessing naked and facing each other. Invisible play dough stories aren’t going to cut it, so if you can’t find any evenings, or afternoons, where you can be completely without distractions then think of going somewhere over night.

Another good tip is to treat your tantric room as somewhere special. Once made ready you should both go out somewhere, romantic dinner perhaps, and come back to it showing some love and respect. It’s not just about placing a few nice candles around but this will help, coupled with some soothing and perhaps slightly sexy music. It’s all about you both, so keep to your favorite things and set the mood.

Time to get jiggy with it! Once your room or chosen space is blissfully ready you should choose some loose fighting and a little bit sexy, clothing. This is not intended as drop-dead, super-hot dominatrix cloning but a slow and sensual seduction. Think of getting unpeeled slowly until naked and relaxed.

 

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Tantric Sex beginners guide – The Nine Chakras

Tantric sex is about sensuality and awakening. You and your partner should start with a massage for each other. Normally the man gets massaged on his back first so use your breasts to help tingle and titillate. He can then reciprocate and use his fingertips to very lightly caress and stimulate all over the body with a hint of teasing but not touching the private areas.

Hopefully this will get passed the awkward feeling and you should both kick back and just relax into your sexual environment. Avoid tickling and giggling so just go with the flow and soon you’ll get a liking for all that arousal.

Think of it as a sexual celebration of your partnership and start to think of it as maybe a way to thank and appreciate each other and what you do for each other. The more you can plan ahead the better your experience will be and when you get hooked you’ll be wondering why you hesitated ever finding out, and you’ll probably want to take up yoga afterwards! Honest!

Sit facing each other and look longingly into each other’s eyes. It is now time to stimulate your nine chakra points by self-massage and stimulates the sexual energy buried in your chakra points. Start with massaging around your nipples in multiples always of nine. Move down to your ribs and circling again nine times, do this twice and take deep breaths at the same time. This is also a great way to learn math starting from nine.

Now go midway between the ribs and the navel four 36 breaths and then focus on the navel for 45 slow breaths and circles. Now massage between the navel and your pubic bone for 54 more. Do 63 more just above the pubic bone and now you should be ready to massage your privates for 72 breaths but resist the urge to overdo it. Don’t worry about being accurate with the chakra points but make sure you have stopped to massage at nine places so start enjoying the nine times table! And oh, keep the counting inside your head.

Awakening the kundalini comes from your massage techniques as it is the sexual energy to be released from within. Your sexual energy will drive your sexual desires and you should be ready to go. Why not have some chocolate or a sip of wine to feed each other and sit back to back. Yep, sex and chocolate, you heard it right! Holding your genitals make swaying motions feeling the energy from each other’s back. Sway and breathe and let the tension build.

Now sit face to face, crossed legged and with one hand on heart and the other still on your privates and let your emotions open up. Avoid talk and get lost in the moment. Sway back and forth and feel each other’s presence, no touching their privates yet! Now shift your looks to your partner’s privates and move your hand from yours onto their shoulder.

Tantric Sex beginners guide – Uniting in tantric sex

Now the woman can move onto his lap and the tantric connection should be a special moment of penetration. With gentle rocking to start she should massage him between the shoulder blades and then put her right hand on his sacrum. His left hand should support her buttocks to complete the tantric circle of energy.

This position is called the Maithuna and the energy chakras are aligned between the navel, solar plexus and hearts. Energy will flow through each other like never before. Now gaze into each other’s eyes and bring your lips firmly and lingeringly together. Now let your swaying turn to rocking and finally thrusting, uniting your body, mind and soul.

As climax approaches you should close your eyes and move your hands from the shoulders to the back of the neck.  Now pause before climax and repeat these hand movements. Keep pausing before climax until you can’t hold on any longer. Feel the wave of orgasm shudder through your whole body and clench your teeth to bring some sensation into your head. Let your mind go and feel every wave from sexual union overpower you.

Let yourself return slowly and peacefully back to the real world and show your affection for each other. If it sounds to you that it is overrated, long winded foreplay then at least try it. It has been around for as long as, well, since we having been having sex, and it’s definitely here to stay.

You have just experienced the ancient rites of tantric sex which combines sexual powers with the earth’s energy.

 

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Tantric Sex beginners guide – Kundalini Massage for Increased Sexual Energy


By Raeven

 

One Comment

  1. Hi Raevan!

    Great post! I used many of the tips and processes in your guide when I first started practising tantric massaging! With experience and time, your hands will become a work of magic creating a stronger connection with your partner.

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