Spanking Before Sex: When Good Girls Go Bad

Spanking Before Sex

 

Spanking Before Sex

Spanking before sex: when good girls go bad.

There is no doubt about it. When a woman wants to be spanked, she really wants to be spanked. This is when yes really means yes. No catches, no gimmicks, no paying for it days after. For the guy, or other girl fair is fair, this is a win-win situation. He gets to do something he likes but normally isn’t allowed and at the same time is pleasing her which is always a bonus.

So why do women like being spanked? More accurately, why do women want to be spanked, and for the lucky guys, need to be spanked?

A woman’s desire to be spanked in a good old fashioned, stark naked-over-the-knee spanking could be a double whammy.

Part of her needs to be wanted. She wants to feel that someone she loves and respects wants her as well and wants to show they care about her. Secondly, part of her, and it may not be too deep, wants to be disciplined. She feels like she can be cleansed and in some cases healed by spanking. It’s an interesting thought.

 

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Spanking Before Sex

Spanking Before Sex – The sting of spanking 

Now, the level of spanking we are talking about is that there is a level of pain involved otherwise we’re just going through the motions and this should be left to grandpas of the world. We are talking a good hard suggestive slap, across the buttocks that should always leave a mark for at least a few moments. If you can’t see the flesh transform then you are not doing it right. Period.

Just doing pretend spanking just to say you did that last night is a cop out. It requires no emotional risk for the lady and is no more an exercise than her steeling herself for a stirrup assisted medical examination of her private parts. She is not defenseless and she is knowing of the exercise and is bracing herself for the expected short intrusion. Basically speaking she isn’t vulnerable.

Spanking Before Sex

Spanking Before Sex – The appeal in shaming

Many of the women expressed that sometimes they need to feel vulnerable; to feel whether she is being loved or not. Being naked is a key part of this arrangement. Her nudity in itself is a show of vulnerability and she is putting on a very explicit display for her man to see and to respect and to act. He needs to show her how much he cares at precisely this moment.

It could be seen as a challenge or a test, not just of his character but something more. It should, at least, be seen as an invitation. Depending on the naiveté of the man and whether he’s not attune to subtlety, this invitation should entice him to further discover of the mysteries and intricacies of the full female form.

The provocative temptation in all its unbridled glory. The lure and the lust is ready and waiting to be plucked like the juiciest fruit from the deepest, darkest corner of the forest. The tree of life perhaps or the forbidden fruit. She sacrifices her modesty for knowledge and he cannot easily hide his passion from within. His wanting is as obvious as her vulnerability.

Now it is time for the game of ‘come and get me’. She uses her naked allure as a means to an end. The means is the soundless plea for a spanking, and the end is the affirmation of the strength of their bonding. Two can become one. She wants to be loved and wanted. A man that truly loves his woman does not always have to be easy on her.

For some women the thought of being spanked is abhorrent and belittling. For some women, however, they feel the need to be punished and spanking fits the bill with its deep and electric chemistry. It can be done without words. It should be done with intent. The woman should clearly indicate how much force she is comfortable with and timid men will wilt and falter into oblivion if not up to the task.

Spanking Before Sex

She is looking for discipline. She is looking for a forceful punisher.  She is not looking for a game of naughty and nice but a serious statement of sexual intent. She needs a man of experience. She wants the experience and she needs to be punished.

For the experienced man he should be up to the challenge. He should be ready to serve but ready to teach. For him it is more than a pagan act of sexual gratification. It should be an education but who is the master?

He can show desire and he can demonstrate passion. He should show his beloved he is there to cooperate but he is there to be heard, to be felt. He is there for her and in awareness of body and spirit. He is there for them both.

He is there for his woman but now he must act on her passiveness.  He can now be assertive to her submissive and he can now exercise his wanton desires. They want each other and they act for each other. An act of true togetherness.

Many relationship problems can be brought to bear and resolved in such an act. Differences can be worked out without such need for counselling. Needs can be addressed and secrets revealed. Togetherness can open more wants and desires and new intimacies explored. She can show her all his likes and fantasies. She can exhibit her loyalty and willingness to be governed. She won’t fake an orgasm while being spanked.

She should admit to him what she needs to get her through. This is what he should understand.

Spanking Before Sex

Spanking Before Sex – What about you, what do you think about spanking?

Would you say that a significant number of women like spanking or most don’t?

Do you agree that women sometimes need to be humiliated and that spanking takes care of this?

When is the best time to give/receive spankings, before or during penetration?

Spanking Before Sex

 

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One Comment

  1. Nice.. Beautiful images and well woven words. Thanks for sharing

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