Couples Who Have Threesomes – Why Threesomes Can be the Ultimate Fantasy (Ménage à trois – Part 1)

Couples Who Have Threesomes

Couples Who Have Threesomes

Let us explore the concept of couples who have threesomes or those that might be interested in the idea of a threesome. There has always been a shroud of mystery around the concept of having a threesome. . Almost to the point of a great feeling of embarrassment between couples merely by raising the subject. If the couple are very close and a little bit shy they may feel intimidated on hearing the news their close nit soul mate is ruminating the idea of inviting a guest next time for sex.

Does this mean I am not good enough? This is the dreaded connotation that may be being politely disguised like a rose coloured sledgehammer. There can be all sorts of ghosts in the closet ready to leap out if this subject is handled badly.

But does there need to be so much mystique added to it? If your sex life is good and strong and you enjoy sex frequently, then surely having a third man is just doubling the pleasure, is it not?

After all, many people fantasize about having a sexy adventure with a hunky hero or the sexy seductress that often stops at your favourite coffee shop. So why not do the thing that’s been in the dusty murky back recesses of your mind and actually entertain the idea more seriously? You’ll discover that it is not only popular but a lot more common and all around you, more than you might think.

A long term and solid relationship should be able to cope with a threesome without too much trouble especially if explored correctly and the idea is fully discussed between partners. Here are some of the usual reasons why strong relationships have room for one more, and it might not just stop at three!

Couples Who Have Threesomes

Couples Who Have Threesomes -The RULE of THREE’s

Couples Who Have Threesomes – 1.

More variety. Just think of it. The six hands, three mouths and three sets of genitals now on offer. There can be an endless array of adventure when working out a few combinations and that’s just for starters. Getting into more specific logistics of the new link ups you will need to start working out the limitations of which bits can go where. The will be some inevitable physical barriers to allow for but it’ll be fun trying at least.

 

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Why not have more of a good thing? If you love breasts why stop at two and have four? If you take immense pleasure from the penis how about two? And if you’re a girl that loves to be held by two strong arms you’re bound two get two from four. Many couples have their favourite body parts they have admitted to each other so why not spoil them with a double helping? Purely out of love for each other, of course.

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Seeing a new side to your lover. One thing couples that haven’t tried threesomes seriously overlook is how it might spur their partner on to new heights. Sometimes it can transform a person’s sexual prowess having to be masterful or giving all over again.

You must have found them sexual attractive when in the early days of your relationship and sometimes initial eagerness may have been denuded over time. So what better way to get that spark back than watch your partner re acquaint themselves with how they used to enjoy being a turn on and developing the excitement.

Often couples find their old spark this way and if the excitement really builds up a head of steam you’re invited assistant surely won’t mind side stepping out of the way if you want that special moment for the big finale. Chances are, you will get used to them helping out and feel more inclined to reward them for their part in the rekindling process.

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Being desired on two fronts. Yes this can be meant literally but just the thrill of being pleasured by two partners at the same time can have its own sweet feelings of being desired and ravished at the same time. This brings into play the whole concept of some extra role play or just plain good cop, bad cop drama for the bedroom antics.

The excitement should be multiplied not stretched across three so have some fun with this one. Be a king or queen for a day and live out a fantasy with your partner’s full agreement and involvement. It could bring you together like never before, so whatever floats your boat!

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Triangular energy. Sexual energy and tantric sex are on the rise and it’s easy to see why. Bringing some spiritualism into sex is always a curious thing and there is plenty to try out and experience for the curious. Having three-way sex will greatly enhance these experiences and if you purposefully seek out a like-minded third person then you can make the journey together.

A tantric sex instructor will probably be only too pleased to help you there. They will tell you that threesomes are not about taking turns but having sexual experiences together as a threesome so no one is left out for one moment. That way the tantric and sexual energies can rebound and be free flowing together. This can create quite an energy pool and sex can take on a spiritual workout in addition.

Sharing such intimate common experiences can be very powerful so with thoughtful practice energy skills can be honed and nurtured into moving experiences. Once the connection is made it should be kept in contact for the whole session and built upon. You will some discover the power of three is stronger and you will appreciate each other as a threesome.

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Same sex exploration. For a fair number of people trying threesomes may be the first time they have had the chance to share erotic energy with someone of the same sex. They may find it a very new and satisfying experience to erotically connect with the sexual energies of a same sex partner. This can be a liberating and satisfying experience not to mention a real eye opener for straight lovers.

The extra potential for pleasure can be immeasurably heightened by the prospect of feeling turned on by sharing such sexual acts. Many people specifically target participating in threesome sex just to try out their inquisitiveness to test for any gay tendencies. Many threesome sex sessions have converted lovers into bisexual status where same sex sessions can be explored further but still enjoyed by the couple and their new found openness.

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A golden rule is that all three of the threesome should be enjoying the new found partnership and everything is au fait and tickety-boo. If sexual orientation is an issue then this needs to be dealt with preferably before the ménage à trois has been consolidated. Same sex contact can be anything from no touchy feely to all out bi-sex. This may not be what is wanted.

The scenario of a straight male happy to have another male join him in pleasuring his girl can be strained if the second guy wants more. There are certain boundaries that should never be crossed as it will always end in tears. These issues should be eliminated well in advance and straight guys expecting the scenario to go off without a hitch are often disappointed with proceedings. These things should be established before embarking on such an exploration.

 

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Your definition of sex. It might be a good idea to sit down and fully discuss with your partners all the expectations and limitations you both feel need to be recognized. Having a threesome can be a truly exhilarating experience but it ought not to go sour. The invited guest should also feel totally comfortable and not in any way intruding into the mechanics of the relationship. Perhaps agreeing to non-penetrative sex should be the first step. Explore the erotic feeling of three naked bodies just lying in the same bed together. Without taking things a single step further this can be made as a safety level for all to feel comfortable with.

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Plan wisely. You should put your relationship uppermost in your plans and approach the idea of threesomes together. It does not have to be a heart wrenching situation and if it is then perhaps you’re not ready but by carefully setting out the parameters you feel comfortable with the with a mutual agreement there need not be any more problems. Inviting threesomes into a stable and regular relationship can be happily based on trust but if one of you isn’t being true to themselves then a threesome with a relative strangers may throw light on an unknown situation.

Many people decide to ask a close friend if they are prepared to join in but this often can lead to ruin as close relationships can be affected by the rumpy pumpy. Out of fairness, neutral friends and ex’s should be left well out of it and the same goes for anyone that plays a pivotal role in the lives of your partnership.

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Keep It Safe. Safe sex is always advisable of you are bringing in a third partner. (Read sex and condoms use) Even if you both know the person reasonably well it still might be a good idea to familiarize yourself with the latest safe sex practices. Any misgivings regarding the whole process is certainly going to get blown up if and STD or pregnancy worries were to materialize. Keep everyone on the same page and keep the prophylactics in plentiful supply. You may want to use this as an excuse to try out lubricants and sex toys which is a great idea. It’s all about having safe fun but safe fun together as three.

We hope you liked our first installment of couples who have threesomes.

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