All Tied Up! A Short Guide to Beginners Bondage

Beginners Bondage

Beginners Bondage

Okay, you’ve tried Beginners Bondage and been naughty with a few evenings tying each other to the bed with silk stockings and you now have the taste for more. You have started having flashbacks and get a bit sweaty while pushing your cart down the aisle at the supermarket. Just by walking past certain shop windows with mannequins gets your hairs standing on edge. You have had passionate sex through a little bondage playmaking at want to know more.

So you’ve got the bondage bug. You can’t wait to experiment again and want to know if what you are feeling is real or just a reaction. You already know it is time to find out. The question is, how fast do you think you should go?

Sexual bondage can provide entertainment from the merest innocent titillation to the most extreme sexual and borderline dangerous perversion. The warning is, it can become addictive. So to help you decide to take things step by step and not get ahead of ourselves here are a few pointers of the things you can do to make your journey the most enjoyable and safe as possible.

Beginners Bondage

Beginners Bondage –  Bondage Lite

For starters, there is the psychological aspect that bondage is all about rough kinky sex. This is nonsense and dismissing this is the first step on your way to a better understanding and enjoyment of what is for millions and healthy and happy sex life.

  • There is a softer side to bondage that can still amaze and amuse. You can freely explore your kinky side without any risks or discomfort. Kinky does not have to mean quirky and those that use the term sarcastically have probably never tried it so let’s move on.
  • Light bondage or bondage lite for the newbies is all about simple erotic restraint. This comes without the need for crazy ropes and fancy knots. You still get the electric thrill of being tied up but without the need for acrobatic lessons or feeling exposed.
  • You can enjoy the comfort of your own bed and feel light restraints on your wrists and ankles while your lover pleasures you all over. You can’t touch your lover so don’t feel the need to give back and can give in to soft and seducing sensations.

 

Beginners Bondage

Beginners Bondage  – Something to consider.

Light bondage can be an invitation for women to completely relax and give in to receiving erotic sexy stimulation without any distractions.

  1. Ditch the handcuffs. These are not totally necessary and aren’t required just yet. They can big cold and heavy for newbies and the sensual comfortable options should be pursued instead. Stick with satin scarves for ties that will cares not contort and add to the smooth sexual ambience. Neckties can bridge that gap of excitement with ease by even the loosest of fittings. Don’t forget, you can always undo satin so avoid snipping silk if knots get too tight!
  2. Talk Dirty to Me. Try and create your own sexy language together. It will be good fun to have special words that mean green light or don’t stop! It’s just as important to have safety words if you don’t like something. Keep your conversations provocative and alluring as this is a good way to stay on the same page. This is all about setting boundaries and showing what you like and are in the mood for. Better your partner can follow instructions to let your anticipation build up unchecked.
  3. Give in before give out. Learn the sweet art of surrender. This means being just as good at receiving as seducing. Let your lover know he is making all the right moves and go with the flow. Let your fantasies start to build as you familiarize yourself with your bandages. Learn how to use your body provocatively to suggest what you want without the powers to instigate any moves.

 

Beginners Bondage

 

Beginners Bondage –  Get used to someone calling the shots.

Get used to the idea that someone is now calling the shots so be open to show your pleasure and learn to enjoy the unbridled hope that is the backbone of  sexual bondage pleasures. It’s all about enjoying the wanton feeling of wanting more and being teased with the relaxed way you are slowly getting more.  Someone is offering you slow measured ecstasy. Can you handle this?

  1. Love is blind. So try your first addition to your tryst with a blindfold. If the loose hand ties are not enough restraint or you’re just too keen for your lover’s patient approach get a blindfold and take a back seat in the I-know-what’s-coming scenario. Denying your visual input can turn the excitement on its head so immerse yourself in the magical world of sensual pleasure delivered bypassing the analytical brain. This should suspend you in pure sensation so let the lingering touches mean so much more. Now the power of the hand restraint should come firmly into play. The tickling and cajoling without any defences should turn your body crazy with desire from the inside out! Now you can receive true focus on the erotically charged experience of submissive arousal.
  2. Switch Roles. This can be liberating just by definition. If you’ve already had the pleasure’s-all-yours treatment then reciprocate next time. Learn all the naughty nuances of having your guy tied up and willing and almost able. Be the boss and feel the allure of the dominatrix. He won’t mind light restraints being there for show as if you’re doing him/things correctly then he’s sure to go along with it.

Teach him to be a patience good little boy to get his reward and role play your starring role as much as you want. He can do nothing to stop you. So let your hair own but keep it out of the way.  Make him squirm and beg. Make him do what you want. Make him feel your power.

Beginners Bondage

 

Beginners Bondage  – Explore your wildest fantasies.

Just make sure you take him on a mind-blowing trip of arousal and experiment with stopping just short of his climax to get some repeat fun.

  1. Explore your wildest fantasies. You should be well on your way to getting maximum fulfilment from all your bondage lite activities. Now is the time to take things up a notch and start to delve into your deeper desires. Bondage is all about adventure and discovery so let your mind and body open up to further exploration of your favourite fantasies. You should have your communication well and truly sorted out between you and both be ready to take on bigger braver acts of bondage. Your intimacy is now well and truly in partnership together so discuss your desires and intrigues and prepare for new experiences. There are many new experiences waiting to be discovered so take it slow and mutually beneficial. Investigate all the intricacies of bondage as decide on your plan of action.

Hopefully this humble pointers have given you some advice and info about how to go about your new world of discovery but don’t take everything you read as gospel as things are different for everyone. The is great fun to be had with all your trial and error experiences so don’t hold back and go out and see what works for you both.

Bondage is always sexy and provocative and can be a personal journey so be ready to learn and adapt to new experiences. There are numerous toys and whips you can bring in to your games and the ropes and gear can also be increased along with your threshold. We hope you like our Beginners Bondage post.

 

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