Advanced Bondage

Advanced Bondage
The Art of Sexual Bondage (When You’re a Beginner No More!)

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Looking to enhance your advanced bondage techniques? Here are some of the more heavy duty ways of enjoying your advanced bondage sex life once you out dated your beginners tag, enjoy!

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Advanced Bondage – Suspension Bondage.

It’s all about building bridges, literally. Advanced Bondage includes such themes as suspension bondage which is the form of sexual bondage made pleasurable by being bound up and hung from the ceiling or better still, tried up to an overhead apparatus that simply oozes naughtiness.

It does however, carry more danger than normal types of bondage as once being strung up there is not a lot you can do about getting down again making it reliant on your partner or a very risky form of self-bondage.

It is customary to use ropes, chains and cables and the idea is to never make contact with the ground which is a big part of the thrill. The positioning of the body in full suspension is no mean feat and the skill of the binder is matched only by the endurance of the recipient. Needless to say it can last a long time and when done correctly give great pleasure. A lesser strain allows for partial suspension where tiptoes or a shoulder lift are permitted.

The thrill is all in the creation of a heightened sense of vulnerability and inescapability. The subject is made to feel they are in total fear of falling at any given moment and there is absolutely nothing they can do about it. The more they would struggle to escape the more they feel in further peril with the prospect of hurting themselves if falling.

This is a tangible form of mental bondage which is taken to extremes levels due to the physical shackles making the feeling of being at a loss extenuated. Hopelessness and vulnerability and promoted to a fantastically emotive climax.

Being suspended in a large open room sometimes a good distance of the floor will increase the feeling of entrapment and objectification. Submissiveness plays a big part in the erotic fulfillment. Also there is a massive amount of stimulation to be had if the subject is being observed.

Rope suspension is often performed at BDSM conventions and fetish themed nightclubs. Suspension positions are traditionally vertical, horizontal which looks amazing and the all-powerful vertical position which exudes total submissiveness and inescapability.

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Advanced Bondage – Predicament Bondage

Predicament Bondage takes on a twist where the subject has a limited choice between uncomfortable positions. The binding becomes an art form for this type of bondage as the recipient should be allow to have enough freedom of movement to go from one position to another but this may be an equally uncomfortable and unrewarding manoeuvre.

And therein lies the thrill that whatever they do, even when allowed movement, their position remains utterly hopeless and a slight element of mental cruelty becomes apparent. This is another fetish for the innocent voyeuristic onlookers. Just as there is hope in the form of body-shifting movement, the pointlessness of the new position just adds to the anguish being played out and thoroughly enjoyed.

Predicament bondage also has the added spice of the binding allowing for a very conscious choice between pain subjected to different parts of the body.

There are a few different ways of doing this:

  • This is normally due to allowing muscle fatigue to set in, which everyone is aware of as being a slow burner. As muscles begin to lose feeling due to physical stress and chronic discomfort endurance the subject chooses to shift position for relief but ultimately receiving more pain in an unrelated alternative body part.

Imagine the hands, hair or breasts being tied up to create slow pain from fatigue that gets to the point of capitulation only to be swapped for release coming in the form of a releasing position causing rope tightening on the genitals creating an extreme parallax.

  • There are versions of predicament bondage that instigate tickling or sexually pleasured which irrevocably causes them to squirm in pleasure and then pain immediately after as if the best of both worlds.
  • Forced positions of discomfort can also be applied, that categorically cause discomfort and the need to flinch and bring more pain.
  • Also forcing the subject pain and fatigue which is only increased form the slightest movement. This obviously creates more pain and distress and increases the pleasure. Whatever they do they will suffer unless achieving enough mental strength to limit the pain and movement. Some argue this causes mental fatigue which will also give way at some point adding to the thrill of submissiveness.

Just as a cautionary note there are often onlookers as part of the act to apply a quick release if the captive becomes too weak for their own good or they can’t support themselves any longer.

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Advanced Bondage – Self-Bondage

As the name suggests self-bondage is the most personal type and also carries the most dangers. With all the risks of restraint together with the thrill of sexual bondage but with the extreme adrenalin rush of being alone and without the chance of rescue. If ever blood flow is cut off and the circulation drops to be consciousness level then the alarm trigger cannot be used to save you.

This form of sexual bondage obviously carries the most dangers of all and carries warnings of extreme caution. Due to this factor the BDSM community advocates self-bondage as a performance art form only or private performance should still have a watcher for safety.

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And lastly…..

As you can now see the world of advanced bondage is both pleasurable as it is diverse. There certainly is something for everyone as you’ll find most practitioners like to mix things up and use their skills for many different sessions. There are many different facets to bondage and definitely many different levels to seek out and enjoy. Although something incredibly personal the respect and understanding between fellow devotees is comforting alone. There is lots of advice and community groups to get more valued advice from.

You could also go and see a show. A full acrobatic show is something to behold and highly recommended. Artistically bondage can be a stunningly beautiful as it is sexually charged. The practitioners are both dedicated to their art and their sexual appetites are more than fulfilled. They are willing to teach and give back to their hobby which gives them so much pleasure.  It is as entertaining as educational so why not share in some of the magic at home. Your home is your castle so why not have your bedroom as your occasional dungeon of love.

Hopefully you’ll agree that the stigma of advanced bondage being for weirdoes only couldn’t be further from the truth. If only these people would try for themselves.

Anyway, enjoy your journey and have fun along the way. And enjoy each other. The next time you can’t get to the phone, because you’re tied up at the moment, soon will be true!

 

 

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